Secondary Trauma in Pastors: Self-Care for Sustained Well-Being
Explore the impact of secondary trauma on pastors and the importance of self-care. Learn strategies to maintain emotional health and provide effective pastoral care.
Explore the impact of secondary trauma on pastors and the importance of self-care. Learn strategies to maintain emotional health and provide effective pastoral care.
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You’re ready to dive deep into your mental health, armed with your insurance card, only to find out that the top-tier therapists—the ones who totally get the nuances of anxiety, depression, or those tricky relationship hurdles—often don’t mesh with insurance plans.
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When your face hurts from smiling as you think about your special day and your countdown gets smaller and smaller you start to notice something new come up inside of you… sadness. Wait what?? Sadness?? NO!! Why am I sad?! This “should” be the happiest day of my life? My wedding day! As fear starts to creep into your mind and you notice this new feeling emerge, you wonder: “Is this normal…?”
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