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Christian Sex Therapy

Find the help you are looking for, online or in person.

Our Top-Rated Christian Sex Therapists love Jesus, know the Bible, and are clinically trained in the very best, evidence-based counseling practices. We can help to troubleshoot the most difficult struggles that any couple faces in their sex life, including low sexual desire, pain during sex, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and orgasm difficulties.

Christian Sex Therapy

Are you struggling in the sexual part of your life or marriage? Christian Sex Therapy can help to improve sexual connection and confidence, increase desire, and overcome challenges.

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Common Sex Challenges

Our Licensed Professional Therapists are highly experienced in walking with people through the darkness of depression, to a renewed sense of hope and joy.

Desire Differences

Feeling rejected sexually hurts. It can leave you feeling unloved, unwanted, guilty, and inadequate. Over time these feelings erode away at the affection in a relationship, eventually leaving it cold and distant.

In 80% of couples the husband is the higher desire spouse, the other 20% (1 in 5 couples) the wife desires sex more frequently. In about 100% of couples the desired frequency for sexual connection is different between spouses.

So how do you navigate sexual desire differences in a way that feels good to both and doesn’t leave anyone feeling rejected? We can help with that.

Desire Disorders: Lack of Sexual Desire or Interest in Sex

Female Sexual Interest Disorder

Absent or reduced interest in sexual activity, thoughts, or fantasies. Reduced or no initiation of sex.

Male Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder

Reduced or absent sexual thoughts, fantasies, and desire for sexual activity.

Sexual Satisfaction

Most people don’t desire to do things they don’t enjoy. Thus, if you REALLY enjoy sex – you’ll want to do it often. If you don’t – you won’t.

God designed the human body to really enjoy sex – female bodies even more than male – so if you don’t REALLY enjoy sex, something is wrong. The cause maybe something biological or a very normal reaction to one of a few common life experiences that can get in the way of sexual enjoyment. Or, you just might not know how to connect with and enjoy your body.

Anorgasmia, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, lack of arousal, and sexual naivety are just a few of the problems we commonly treat. Whatever the case, our sex therapists know how to troubleshoot your sexual difficulties and form a plan to get you to a very rewarding sex life.

Orgasm Disorders — Delay or Absence of Orgasm (Climax)

Arousal disorders: inability to become physically aroused or excited during sexual activity

Female Sexual Arousal Disorder

Absent or reduced sexual excitement or pleasure during most sexual activity. Lack of sexual interest or arousal in response to internal or external cues, such as a spouse’s attempts to initiate sexual activity.

Male Sexual Arousal Disorder

Difficulty achieving or maintaining physical arousals, such as erectile dysfunction (ED), or premature ejaculation (PE).

Physically Painful Sex

Sex shouldn’t be painful. Sure, you might enjoy some playful roughness, but it shouldn’t actually hurt. Healthy people don’t enjoy real pain, so if sex really hurts or is very uncomfortable – you’re not going to enjoy sex. So you’re not going to want to have sex with your spouse.

There’s a number of reason’s why sex might be uncomfortable or painful – we can help you troubleshoot what the issue is and give you practical solutions for fixing it.

Pain disorders — Pain during intercourse (Dyspareunia)

Atrophic Vaginitis

Vaginal atrophy due to low estrogen levels


Pain which is limited specifically to the vulvar vestibule causing pain at the opening of the vagina (formerly called The Vulvar Vestibulitis Syndrome)


The most common cause of chronic pelvic pain in women

Interstitial cystitis/painful bladder syndrome (IC/PBS)

Bladder pain, frequency, nocturia, and urinary urgency causing pain during sex

Vaginismus/Pelvic Floor Hypertonus

The chronic spasm of the muscles of the female pelvic floor

Vulvar Dermatologic Conditions

Dermatologic conditions which may affect the vulva and causing pain during sex

Lost Love

Lost that loving feeling? Sometimes the grind of ongoing conflict and unfulfilled needs in a relationship lead to a “falling out of love” that also means “I don’t want to have sex with you.”

Sex is something that two people madly in love with each other, all things being equal, want to share with each other. If our relationship has deteriorated to the point where we’re not even friends, being lovers is out of the question.

Sometimes the pathway to a passionate relationship starts with learning to love again.


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You can meet with a Licensed Christian Counselor online through video therapy, or in person at one of our offices around the country.

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Lacey was wonderful! She was inviting and able to create an environment of safety and openness even from a computer screen.

Elisabeth M.

Springfield Office

2131 S Eastgate Ave
Springfield, MO 65809

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I love the online aspect of this. I can be comfortable in my own home or wherever I am. Aliuwa is fantastic. I am a different person from when I started.

Rachael S.

Kansas City Office

6501 E Commerce Avenue, Suite 140
Kansas City, MO 64120

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Shaun Lotter saved our marriage. He is truly one of a kind, professional, caring and a great Christian counselor.

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Springfield Office

2131 S Eastgate Ave
Springfield, MO 65809

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My wife and I have used several different counselors over the years and Allison Pitts with MyCounselor Denver has helped us more than all the rest put together in a very short amount of time.

David S.

Denver / Centennial Office

4901 E Dry Creek Rd, Suite 170
Centennial, CO 80122

85 Reviews4.9 Stars

Alyssa has been tremendous. She knows her Bible, is kind, but is no push over. She has come up with great exercises for my treatment.

Josh B.

Denver / Centennial Office

4901 E Dry Creek Rd, Suite 170
Centennial, CO 80122

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Josh loves God, honors what God says in His word, and does excellently in his work. I greatly appreciate him and recommend his services.

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I would recommend Tish Hedger. She walked *with* me through my mess and I was able to find healing from my childhood trauma.


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6501 E Commerce Avenue, Suite 140
Kansas City, MO 64120

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Online Christian Sex Therapy

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Professional Counseling, Available Worldwide

Our video conferencing software has native applications on Apple, Android, Mac, and Windows devices. You can connect with your counselor online from your phone, computer, or tablet, from wherever you are!

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HIPAA Compliant Online Therapy

MyCounselor uses a HIPPA compliant tele-health video software to provide online counseling with end-to-end encryption using TLS 1.2, Advanced Encryption Standard (AES) 256-bit algorithm for maximum security.

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Evidence-Based Therapy


There is a growing body of research supporting the effectiveness of online counseling, and showing evidence that online therapy is as effective as in-person counseling.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the counseling fees?

Fees range from $55 to $195 depending on the level of experience of your counselor. All first-time appointments will be charged a non-refundable one-time $35 assessment and setup fee at the time of scheduling.

Advanced Practice: $165-195/session
MCO Certified: $135/session
Resident Counselors: $110/session
Scholarship (1 free session followed by 5 scholarship sessions): $55/session.

Do you offer free counseling?

With the amount of training and experience, our therapists have MyCounselor.Online isn’t free, but it can be affordable. Don’t let cost prohibit you from getting help. There is an affordable road to healing.

We have 4 Fee Tiers to choose from, starting at $55/session. Payment plans are available as low as $50/week. You may qualify for a scholarship from your church or work. We also offer 1 free session of online counseling through our Strong Families Scholarship.

Are you in-network for insurance?

MyCounselor.Online is a Christian counseling center focused on providing the highest quality care possible. As such we are unwilling to enter into any arrangement that might pressure us to compromise quality to increase insurance company profits. Thus, at present, we are not a part of any private insurance in-network panels.

That being said, outpatient psychotherapy is a covered benefit under many insurance plans and we do have a number of clients who receive out-of-network benefits for our services. Some networks, recognizing our excellence in certain specialized areas, have agreed to reimburse our clients at in-network levels even though we are not on their in-network panels. This is solely at the discretion of your insurance provider.

Can you file my insurance?

Yes. We can submit a claim for reimbursement of service fees to your insurance on your behalf for a fee* or you may submit claims to your insurance company directly. We cannot accept consignment for insurance benefits and have no control over how much your policy will cover or how covered claims will be applied based on your deductible. You are responsible for paying fully for your services at the time of your appointment.

*In an effort to hold down costs associated with providing the most effective and helpful professional clinical services possible, MCO outsources our medical billing request to an independent medical biller. The $5 fee for this service is passed along to those requesting this service.

How soon can I get in?

Appointments are available Monday-Friday, 9 a.m. to 9 p.m. Also keep in mind that each counselor’s schedule is different, and availability may vary depending on how busy they are and whether they have any cancellations.

If you need to get in quick and have flexibility with which counselor you see, we may be able to schedule you with a therapist same-day if you contact us before 5 pm CT.

What’s your cancellation policy?

Cancellations must be made by 5pm CT the business day prior to your scheduled appointment by contacting reception (Monday appointments must be cancelled by 5pm CT the Friday before). You will be responsible for paying the full session fee if changes are made after that time.

Much like a doctor’s appointment or hotel reservation, this time was reserved by the counselor specifically for you. When changes are made beyond the cancellation window, you are still responsible for that reserved time since we can no longer offer it to other clients in need.
In the event of inclement weather or other circumstances that prevent you from making it to our office, your scheduled session time is available over the phone or by video. Online clients who experience an internet outage or other technical difficulties are encouraged to attend their session over the phone.
We apply the cancellation policy without favoritism and with uniformity to all clients to whom it applies.