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Christian Sex Therapy

Find the help you are looking for, online or in person.

Our Top-Rated Christian Sex Therapists love Jesus, know the Bible, and are clinically trained in the very best, evidence-based counseling practices. We can help to troubleshoot the most difficult struggles that any couple faces in their sex life, including low sexual desire, pain during sex, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and orgasm difficulties.

Christian Sex Therapy

Are you struggling in the sexual part of your life or marriage? Christian Sex Therapy can help to improve sexual connection and confidence, increase desire, and overcome challenges.

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Common Sex Challenges

Our Licensed Professional Therapists are highly experienced in walking with people through the darkness of depression, to a renewed sense of hope and joy.

Desire Differences

Feeling rejected sexually hurts. It can leave you feeling unloved, unwanted, guilty, and inadequate. Over time these feelings erode away at the affection in a relationship, eventually leaving it cold and distant.

In 80% of couples the husband is the higher desire spouse, the other 20% (1 in 5 couples) the wife desires sex more frequently. In about 100% of couples the desired frequency for sexual connection is different between spouses.

So how do you navigate sexual desire differences in a way that feels good to both and doesn’t leave anyone feeling rejected? We can help with that.

Desire Disorders: Lack of Sexual Desire or Interest in Sex

Female Sexual Interest Disorder


Absent or reduced interest in sexual activity, thoughts, or fantasies. Reduced or no initiation of sex.

Male Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder


Reduced or absent sexual thoughts, fantasies, and desire for sexual activity.


Sexual Satisfaction

Most people don’t desire to do things they don’t enjoy. Thus, if you REALLY enjoy sex – you’ll want to do it often. If you don’t – you won’t.

God designed the human body to really enjoy sex – female bodies even more than male – so if you don’t REALLY enjoy sex, something is wrong. The cause maybe something biological or a very normal reaction to one of a few common life experiences that can get in the way of sexual enjoyment. Or, you just might not know how to connect with and enjoy your body.

Anorgasmia, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, lack of arousal, and sexual naivety are just a few of the problems we commonly treat. Whatever the case, our sex therapists know how to troubleshoot your sexual difficulties and form a plan to get you to a very rewarding sex life.

Orgasm Disorders — Delay or Absence of Orgasm (Climax)

Arousal disorders: inability to become physically aroused or excited during sexual activity

Female Sexual Arousal Disorder


Absent or reduced sexual excitement or pleasure during most sexual activity. Lack of sexual interest or arousal in response to internal or external cues, such as a spouse’s attempts to initiate sexual activity.

Male Sexual Arousal Disorder


Difficulty achieving or maintaining physical arousals, such as erectile dysfunction (ED), or premature ejaculation (PE).


Physically Painful Sex

Sex shouldn’t be painful. Sure, you might enjoy some playful roughness, but it shouldn’t actually hurt. Healthy people don’t enjoy real pain, so if sex really hurts or is very uncomfortable – you’re not going to enjoy sex. So you’re not going to want to have sex with your spouse.

There’s a number of reason’s why sex might be uncomfortable or painful – we can help you troubleshoot what the issue is and give you practical solutions for fixing it.

Pain disorders — Pain during intercourse (Dyspareunia)

Atrophic Vaginitis


Vaginal atrophy due to low estrogen levels

Vestibulodynia


Pain which is limited specifically to the vulvar vestibule causing pain at the opening of the vagina (formerly called The Vulvar Vestibulitis Syndrome)

Endometriosis


The most common cause of chronic pelvic pain in women

Interstitial cystitis/painful bladder syndrome (IC/PBS)


Bladder pain, frequency, nocturia, and urinary urgency causing pain during sex

Vaginismus/Pelvic Floor Hypertonus


The chronic spasm of the muscles of the female pelvic floor

Vulvar Dermatologic Conditions


Dermatologic conditions which may affect the vulva and causing pain during sex


Lost Love

Lost that loving feeling? Sometimes the grind of ongoing conflict and unfulfilled needs in a relationship lead to a “falling out of love” that also means “I don’t want to have sex with you.”

Sex is something that two people madly in love with each other, all things being equal, want to share with each other. If our relationship has deteriorated to the point where we’re not even friends, being lovers is out of the question.

Sometimes the pathway to a passionate relationship starts with learning to love again.

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Our Numbers

UPDATED FEBRUARY 21, 2021

29

Counselors

7

Locations

3,714

Families Served

50,688

Hours of therapy

Meet Our Counselors

You can meet with a Licensed Christian Counselor online through video therapy, or in person at one of our offices around the country.

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Testimonials

I love the online aspect of this. I can be comfortable in my own home or wherever I am. Aliuwa is fantastic. I am a different person from when I started.

Rachael S.

Kansas City Office

6501 E Commerce Avenue, Suite 140
Kansas City, MO 64120
816-281-1218

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I have loved receiving counseling here! I automatically connected with my counselor and felt so safe. Alyssa is phenomenal!

Gabrielle B.

Denver / Centennial Office

4901 E Dry Creek Rd, Suite 170
Centennial, CO 80122
720-605-0858

91 Reviews4.9 Stars

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Jacob is welcoming, positive, and nonjudgmental, and I feel comfortable, safe, and understood, no matter the topic of our conversation.

A. G.

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Lacey was wonderful! She was inviting and able to create an environment of safety and openness even from a computer screen.

Elisabeth M.

Springfield Office

2131 S Eastgate Ave
Springfield, MO 65809
417-708-8813

114 Reviews4.9 Stars

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I would recommend Tish Hedger. She walked *with* me through my mess and I was able to find healing from my childhood trauma.

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Kansas City Office

6501 E Commerce Avenue, Suite 140
Kansas City, MO 64120
816-281-1218

84 Reviews4.8 Stars

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Melanie has been a God-send! She has been able to see through to the heart of our issues. She repeatedly points us to Scripture and regularly prays with us.

Dee F.

Denver / Centennial Office

4901 E Dry Creek Rd, Suite 170
Centennial, CO 80122
720-605-0858

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Online Christian Sex Therapy

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Professional Counseling, Available Worldwide

Our video conferencing software has native applications on Apple, Android, Mac, and Windows devices. You can connect with your counselor online from your phone, computer, or tablet, from wherever you are!

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HIPAA Compliant Online Therapy

MyCounselor uses a HIPPA compliant tele-health video software to provide online counseling with end-to-end encryption using TLS 1.2, Advanced Encryption Standard (AES) 256-bit algorithm for maximum security.

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Evidence-Based Therapy

DOES ONLINE THERAPY WORK?

There is a growing body of research supporting the effectiveness of online counseling, and showing evidence that online therapy is as effective as in-person counseling.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the counseling fees?

Fees range from $55 to $195 depending on the level of experience of your counselor. All first-time appointments will be charged a non-refundable one-time $35 assessment and setup fee at the time of scheduling.

Advanced Practice: $165-195/session
MCO Certified: $135/session
Resident Counselors: $110/session
Scholarship (1 free session followed by 5 scholarship sessions): $55/session.

Do you offer free counseling?

With the amount of training and experience, our therapists have MyCounselor.Online isn’t free, but it can be affordable. Don’t let cost prohibit you from getting help. There is an affordable road to healing.

We have 4 Fee Tiers to choose from, starting at $55/session. Payment plans are available as low as $50/week. You may qualify for a scholarship from your church or work. We also offer 1 free session of online counseling through our Strong Families Scholarship.

Are you in-network for insurance?

MyCounselor.Online is a Christian counseling center focused on providing the highest quality care possible. As such we are unwilling to enter into any arrangement that might pressure us to compromise quality to increase insurance company profits. Thus, at present, we are not a part of any private insurance in-network panels.

That being said, outpatient psychotherapy is a covered benefit under many insurance plans and we do have a number of clients who receive out-of-network benefits for our services. Some networks, recognizing our excellence in certain specialized areas, have agreed to reimburse our clients at in-network levels even though we are not on their in-network panels. This is solely at the discretion of your insurance provider.

Can you file my insurance?

Yes. We can submit a claim for reimbursement of service fees to your insurance on your behalf for a fee* or you may submit claims to your insurance company directly. We cannot accept consignment for insurance benefits and have no control over how much your policy will cover or how covered claims will be applied based on your deductible. You are responsible for paying fully for your services at the time of your appointment.

*In an effort to hold down costs associated with providing the most effective and helpful professional clinical services possible, MCO outsources our medical billing request to an independent medical biller. The $5 fee for this service is passed along to those requesting this service.

How soon can I get in?

Appointments are available Monday-Friday, 9 a.m. to 9 p.m. Also keep in mind that each counselor’s schedule is different, and availability may vary depending on how busy they are and whether they have any cancellations.

If you need to get in quick and have flexibility with which counselor you see, we may be able to schedule you with a therapist same-day if you contact us before 5 pm CT.

What’s your cancellation policy?

If you fail to give notice of cancellation by 5 p.m. CT the business day before your scheduled appointment, your credit or debit card will be charged for the time you reserved.

A counselor’s time is very perishable. Unlike an item you return at the store that can be resold, once time has passed it is forever gone. Like a hotel room, once the time for cancellation of your appointment reservation has passed the time is yours, whether or not you are able to use it. When we hold an appointment slot for you we turn other people, who like you are looking for help, away. It’s not fair to the people we must turn away or to the counselor if you do not pay for the time held for you, even if the circumstances are beyond your control (they are also beyond the control of your counselor and those denied an appointment).

Canceling or rescheduling your appointment as soon as you become aware you will not be able to make it, 5 pm CT the business day before at the latest, allows us to offer your appointment time to those waiting for an appointment and those in crisis.
In the event of inclement weather or other circumstances that prevent you from making it to our office, you may be able to use your session time over the phone or by video

We apply the cancellation policy without favoritism and with uniformity to all clients to whom it applies.