Only a Few Orgasms in a Decade of Marriage, Why?
Charlotte asks: “We’ve been married for nearly 10 years and my husband has reached an orgasm during sex with me less than 10 times. What could be the cause?”
Charlotte asks: “We’ve been married for nearly 10 years and my husband has reached an orgasm during sex with me less than 10 times. What could be the cause?”
Kristoph says, “My friend has been married for 12 years and wants to increase the sexual vitality in his marriage. What are some things that he can do?”
Have you experienced sexual trauma in your life? Many women are surprised to find out the kind of experiences that can negatively affect their sex life….
Crystal says, “I was molested at a young age. I have anxiety about doing certain things with my husband. How do I get past this and how can he help me?”
Is pre-engagement counseling something that you would advise to do? And do you offer that?
Welcome to another live and deeply insightful episode of #MyCounselorLIVE “Emotional Affairs, Rape, & Sex in Marriage” where we gather to explore a spectrum of questions and concerns, guided by the expertise of Licensed Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist, Josh Spurlock.
Kristi says, “Is it possible to recover from sexual abuse and get to a place where you can enjoy that relationship with your spouse again?” Read more to find out what Licensed Counselor and Sex Therapist Josh Spurlock says about healing from sexual abuse.
L says, “I’ve never reached orgasm. Is it okay to want an orgasm with my husband, or is it selfish, vain, shameful, or of the flesh to do so?”
“I’m one of those rare wives, that seemed to want more sex and their husbands and a lot of the articles that I read around sex therapy really make me feel worse about my situation.”
Can you speak to the loneliness and rejection wives feel when their husbands are struggling with erectile dysfunction?