It is commonly joked about that when a woman is ready to have sex, the man is just around the corner waiting to pounce. The world we live in today jokes about this dynamic between men and women often. Many men believe that it is their job, as a sexual being, to please a woman. And furthermore that, if they do not experience orgasm, they have failed.
Chances are the “sex talk” you got from dad was terrible….if you got one at all. And the locker room is definitely no fountain of truth when it comes to women. So how do you know what a woman really wants in bed?
Orgasms are GREAT….unless you can’t climax….then they are just a frustrating, discouraging source of heart-ache. But, the good news is: Anorgasmia (the inability to orgasm/climax), is VERY treatable.
God created sex to be this amazing thing you long for and enjoy with passion! – But, that’s not always the message we get from church…
Why do women lose their sexual desire? More importantly: What can you do about low sexual desire? In this article, we take a look at the ways female sexual desire is different than male sex drive. If we don’t understand how wives are unique, our attempts at understanding the loss of libido will be…well…frustrated.
I cannot tell you how many clients come into my office complaining about how painful sex is. They share with me how sex has caused burning, stinging, or sharp pain. These pains can be caused by a few different things.
Welcome to another episode of #MyCounselorLIVE “Emotionally Abusive Mothers, Porn, & Sex Trafficking” that delves into the heart of sensitive and challenging topics. In this conversation, we had the honor of hosting Licensed Counselor and Christian Sex Therapist, Josh Spurlock, who brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to three critical discussions that affect individuals, couples, and families.
Welcome to a candid and enlightening episode of #MyCounselorLIVE! In this installment “Sexual Trauma, Erectile Dysfunction, & Vaginismus”, we had the privilege of sitting down with Licensed Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist, Josh Spurlock, to delve into a collection of topics that touch upon the deeply personal and often stigmatized aspects of human sexuality and mental well-being.
Rebecca says, “I feel weak after every orgasm. Do I have POIS? What can I do about that?”
Taunya says, “My friend is not sexually attracted to her husband, but wants a godly marriage. It doesn’t help that her husband has ED, on top of weight loss issues.”
Sex therapy helps individuals and couples enhance sexual fulfillment and/or resolve sexual conflicts and problems. Solutions can vary from simple education to more extensive counseling around complex or longstanding issues. Strategies are tailored to the goals of the individual or couples seeking help.
Rose asks, “How do I identify sexual desire? After thinking sex was dirty for my entire life, and shutting down thoughts of it, how do I recognize it now?” Read more to find out what Licensed Counselor and Sex Therapist Josh Spurlock says about how to navigate sexual desire.
