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Why Sex is So Important to Men

Why is sex so important to my husband? In 4 out of 5 marriages men have the higher sex drive and are the primary initiator of sexual experiences. If you are in one of these marriages this comes as no surprise to you. It may seem like your husband is constantly wanting sex and acts like a wounded puppy dog if you’re not in the mood.

When Men Avoid Sex (Erectile Dysfunction)

It is commonly joked about that when a woman is ready to have sex, the man is just around the corner waiting to pounce. The world we live in today jokes about this dynamic between men and women often.  Many men believe that it is their job, as a sexual being, to please a woman. And furthermore that, if they do not experience orgasm, they have failed.

A Christian Man’s Guide to Sex [Video]

Chances are the “sex talk” you got from dad was terrible….if you got one at all. And the locker room is definitely no fountain of truth when it comes to women. So how do you know what a woman really wants in bed?

Wives Sexual Desire | What You Need to Know

Why do women lose their sexual desire? More importantly: What can you do about low sexual desire? In this article, we take a look at the ways female sexual desire is different than male sex drive. If we don’t understand how wives are unique, our attempts at understanding the loss of libido will be…well…frustrated.

When Sex Hurts: Dealing with Shame

I cannot tell you how many clients come into my office complaining about how painful sex is. They share with me how sex has caused burning, stinging, or sharp pain. These pains can be caused by a few different things.

Porn, Emotionally Abusive Mothers, & Sex Trafficking

Welcome to another episode of #MyCounselorLIVE “Emotionally Abusive Mothers, Porn, & Sex Trafficking” that delves into the heart of sensitive and challenging topics. In this conversation, we had the honor of hosting Licensed Counselor and Christian Sex Therapist, Josh Spurlock, who brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to three critical discussions that affect individuals, couples, and families.

Sexual Trauma, Erectile Dysfunction, & Vaginismus

Welcome to a candid and enlightening episode of #MyCounselorLIVE! In this installment “Sexual Trauma, Erectile Dysfunction, & Vaginismus”, we had the privilege of sitting down with Licensed Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist, Josh Spurlock, to delve into a collection of topics that touch upon the deeply personal and often stigmatized aspects of human sexuality and mental well-being.