Articles by Josh Spurlock, MA, LPC, CST, NICC

Josh Spurlock, MA, LPC, CST, NICC is the Founder and CEO of MyCounselor.Online Josh is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who brings more than 13,000 hours of direct clinical experience to his practice. He provides online counseling and coaching, specializing in sex therapy, marriage counseling, and executive performance coaching for pastors and business owners. His authority in the field is built on a strong academic and clinical foundation, including a Master’s in Counseling (M.A.) and a B.A. in Biblical Languages. As an ordained minister, Josh uniquely integrates clinical best practices with a faith-based perspective, establishing a high level of trust and specialized expertise for his clients. B.A. Biblical Languages, Central Bible College M.A. Counseling, Assemblies of God Theological Seminary National Provider Identifier: 1467608679 Certified Sex Therapist, American Board of Christian Sex Therapists (ABCST) Missouri Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) – License Number: 2008023816 Montana Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) – License Number: BBH-LCPC-LIC-72683 Colorado Licensed Professional Counselor  (LPC) – License Number: LPC.0011920 Florida Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) – License Number: MH17995

Josh Spurlock, MA, LPC, CST, NICC is the Founder and CEO of MyCounselor.Online
Josh is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and Certified Sex Therapist (CST) who brings more than 13,000 hours of direct clinical experience to his practice. He provides online counseling and coaching, specializing in sex therapy, marriage counseling, and executive performance coaching for pastors and business owners.
His authority in the field is built on a strong academic and clinical foundation, including a Master’s in Counseling (M.A.) and a B.A. in Biblical Languages. As an ordained minister, Josh uniquely integrates clinical best practices with a faith-based perspective, establishing a high level of trust and specialized expertise for his clients.

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When Your Spouse Isn’t Supportive with Josh Spurlock

When Your Spouse Isn’t Supportive

Kathy says, “I’m being sexually bullied by other women. My husband sees no proof and therefore won’t show support.”
Orgasm Difficulty After Miscarriage by Josh Spurlock

“Why Can’t I Orgasm After Miscarriage?”

Sharon says, “We’ve been married for a year. Sex wasn’t perfect when it all started, but it was getting better. Four miscarriages later, and I can’t orgasm at all.”
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Why Enjoying Sex Matters for Married Women

It’s not enough just to HAVE sex… it’s REALLY IMPORTANT that you ENJOY connecting sexually! The importance of the physical relationship in marriage is pretty well established. But, DUTY SEX is no good. You’ll learn why in this article, along with tips on how to strengthen the sexual intimacy in your relationship.
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My Friend’s Dad is Not Her Biological Father

My friend is 38 years old and was just told by her Mom that her Dad she has know all her life is not her biological father. Her Mom and Dad had IVF using a sperm donor, but never told her.
Sex After Marriage: Why Do Women’s Sex Drive Decrease After Marriage? by Josh Spurlock

Sex After Marriage: Why Do Women’s Sex Drive Decrease After Marriage?

So where did my sex drive go… or maybe you’re asking where did my wife’s libido go? Research shows that while the frequency of sex decreases into marriage, relationship satisfaction goes up. In this article, we’ll explain why sex decreases in marriage AND how to increase it!
Trauma, Self-Harm, and Imposter Syndrome

Trauma, Self-Harm, and Imposter Syndrome

In this enlightening episode, September Trent will be our guide through her thought-provoking article, "Trauma & Self-Harm: Why They Coincide." The intersection of trauma and self-harm is a complex and sensitive subject, often shrouded in misconceptions.
Better Sex for Women and New Year’s Resolutions | MyCounselorLIVE by Josh Spurlock

Better Sex for Women & New Year’s Resolutions

Welcome, on this episode of #MyCounselorLIVE "Better Sex for Women & New Year’s Resolutions" that promises to be not only enlightening but also exceptionally relevant to our daily lives.
Busyness – Sex Killer | Better Sex For Women by Josh Spurlock

Busyness – Sex Killer | Better Sex For Women

Having trouble finding time for intimacy? You’re not alone. This actually a pretty common problem, especially: After having a baby! It’s just hard to find alone time when you are parents.
Married Woman’s Guide To Sexual Confidence by Josh Spurlock

Married Woman’s Guide To Sexual Confidence | Better Sex for Women

How can I increase my sexual confidence? What does sexually confident mean anyways? Guess what: Gaining sexual confidence is easier than you may think! Sexual confidence is about REALLY enjoying sex and feeling comfortable in your own skin. You don’t have to feel shy sexually with your husband……you can be more open in bed.
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Getting Past Infidelity Triggers | Recovery Part 1

Infidelity is a traumatic experience.  Whether the betrayal was a physical or emotional affair, pornography use, or even a one-night stand, the result is the same: Infidelity rips away the sense of security and safety in our most important earthly relationship. As a result, our world is turned upside down.
Your Sex Therapy by Josh Spurlock

Your Sex Therapy Questions

Welcome to a very special two-part episode of #MyCounselorLIVE "Your Sex Therapy Questions"! Today, we embark on a unique journey into the world of sexual health and intimacy.
Is it normal for a penis to be significantly larger when erect? by Josh Spurlock

Can a Penis be Significantly Larger When Erect?

Shanjay asks, “My penis is significantly larger when it is erect than it is when it’s flaccid. Is that normal?”