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Sexual Arousal from a Full Bladder by Josh Spurlock

Sexual Arousal From A Full Bladder?

Pocahontas says, “I feel aroused when I have a full bladder, and I don't know why. It's messing with my sex life. What should I do?” Licensed Counselor and Sex Therapist Josh Spurlock says about sexual arousal with a full bladder.
Grief

Navigating Sexual Desire As a Widow

Patricia says, “My husband went to heaven three years ago. We had sex 1-3 times a day. I want that again, but I’m not married.” Read more to find out what Josh Spurlock, Counselor & Sex Therapist, says about grieving the loss of your lover, navigating sexual desire as a widow, and how to lean on trusted friends in your life as you grieve.
Affair

Infidelity Recovery: Creating a Transparency Plan

Infidelity is, at its core, deceit. It is the hiding of the truth at great expense. A Transparency Plan is a strategic guide for a couple to rid their marriage of deceit and to protect it moving forward.
Affair

Affair Recovery Guide | Prep for Disclosure of Affair, Porn, & Sex Addiction

In this article we will take an in-depth look at how to prepare for full disclosure following an affair, porn, or sex addiction.
premarital dating

Conversations to Avoid a Wedding Night Nightmare

Congratulations, you have found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with and are going to get married! Sitting down with your future spouse and dialoguing through different topics will help you both feel more prepared, and calm some of the nerves around the wedding night and the first experience of sex together.
Oral Sex Freaks Me Out by Josh Spurlock

Does Oral Sex Freak You Out?

“I’m a female and married but oral sex freaks me out. How do I overcome this so I can be uninhibited in the bedroom”
Affair

How to Write an Impact Letter | Infidelity Recovery

Writing an emotional impact letter to your husband or wife after disclosure is hard. This example from a Marriage & Family Therapist...
Affair

What is Sexual Immorality & 1 Corinthians 6:12-20

Christian counselor Lane Jordan explains from the Bible how Christians should think and approach the issue of sexual immorality.

Rewiring the Brain: How to Heal Sexual Aversions & Low Sexual Desire