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David and Sarah sit in front of me on the couch both looking uncomfortable. They have come in at Sarah’s urging following revelations of David’s ongoing sexual promiscuity. There is a lot going [...]

Our therapists at The Relationship Center regularly read books and various writings aimed at helping people tackle difficult situations.  Once in a while, we come across those that stand head and [...]

Our therapists at The Relationship Center regularly read books and various writings aimed at helping people tackle difficult situations.  Once in a while, we come across those that stand head and [...]

“ I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”– John 16:33 (ESV) Perhaps the single [...]

“I believe everyone has a right to happiness.” A saying such as this seems good enough, on the surface, even altruistic.  After all, wishing happiness to others is a gesture of kindness and [...]

We live in a day and age where if you have a good reason for what you are doing, especially if it involves your own hurt or fear, it’s okay.  The sensitive thing for others to do is to try to [...]

How to Talk to Your Son About Pornography: Part II Check out Part I here: How to Talk to Your Son About Pornography: Part I The initial conversation is over. We started STRONG, sending a clear [...]

Want to know how to love your wife? I’ll show you how. It’s not as hard as you might think. The number one thing you need to know is…LISTEN TO HER! “Husbands, love your [...]

Denial is the distortion of the truth through various means, allowing for the protection and continuation of destructive behavior. It is dishonesty, pure and simple. Deception can occur not only [...]

As a counselor who has spent several years specializing in working with men, I have come to recognize a few toxic thinking patterns prevalent in guys.  These thought patterns are like bad, [...]