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Are you too busy for sex? Who has time or energy for sex? Finding time or mental focus for romance is harder than it sounds. Quality time and sexually connection are important to the health of [...]

Why does enjoying sex matter? If you’re on the lower end of the libido spectrum, however, that answer doesn’t resonate with you. 1st God Designed You to Enjoy Sex

Does being sexy feel dirty to you? Growing up we can receive the message that sexual feelings and desire are bad. This tends to get in the way of desire for sex.

For many women, conflicting feelings about pregnancy get in the way of them enjoying a passionate sex life with their husbands. It’s true – abstinence from intercourse is the only 100% birth [...]

If you have had negative emotional experiences associated with sexuality, this can significantly impact your sexual desire. Examples of sexual trauma that might impact your sexual desire [...]

It's pretty normal for a mature married woman to only experience initiating desire for sex a few days a month. So what can you do about it?

Why is sex so important to my husband? In 4 out of 5 marriages men have the higher sex drive and are the primary initiator of sexual experiences. If you are in one of these marriages this comes [...]

As a sex therapist I spend a lot of time with couples that are having difficulty in the sexual part of their relationship. Most of the couples I see are coming to me, at least in part, because [...]

Why don't I want sex anymore? I used to get horny. Before marriage or early in our relationship I would think about sex and want sexual touch / intimacy. Sometime after marriage or the [...]

Wives sexual desire is a subject misunderstood by nearly all men and most women. The traditional assumption for both men and women has been that desire precedes sexual arousal. But what if desire [...]