Sex Therapy

Discovering Passion

Christian Sex Therapy

Does your marriage lack the sexual passion you long for? Is the sexual part of your relationship a source of frustration or pain instead of joy and pleasure? We can help.

Our team of state-licensed counselors is lead by certified sex therapist Josh Spurlock, MA, LPC, CST. Combined the team has over 50,000 hours of clinical experience helping couples just like you reach their goals.


Discover the pleasure your body was made to experience. It is possible. Our sex therapist can teach you how.

Desire Conflicts

Tired of feeling rejected again and again? Learn how to resolve desire differences, for real, no-losers style.

Strengthen Intimacy

Marriage is supposed to be full of sexual passion and mutual fulfillment. Not yours? We can fix that.

Improve Communication

Don’t feel heard or understood? Avoid conflict like the plague for fear of a shouting match? Let’s learn to talk.

Common Concerns

Sex Therapy Topics

Desire Differences

Desire Differences

Feeling rejected sexually hurts. It can leave you feeling unloved, unwanted, guilty, and inadequate. Over time these feelings erode away at the affection in a relationship, eventually leaving it cold and distant.

In 80% of couples the husband is the higher desire spouse, the other 20% (1 in 5 couples) the wife desires sex more frequently. In about 100% of couples the desired frequency for sexual connection is different between spouses.

So how do you navigate desire differences in a way that feels good to both and doesn’t leave anyone feeling rejected? We can help with that.

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Sexual Satisfaction

Sexual Satisfaction

Most people don’t desire to do things they don’t enjoy. Thus, if you REALLY enjoy sex – you’ll want to do it often. If you don’t – you won’t.

God designed the human body to really enjoy sex – female bodies even more than male – so if you don’t REALLY enjoy sex, something is wrong.

The cause maybe something biological or a very normal reaction to one of a few common life experiences that can get in the way of sexual enjoyment. Or, you just might not know how to connect with and enjoy your body.

Anorgasmia, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, lack of arousal, and sexual naivety are just a few of the problems we commonly treat.

Whatever the case, our sex therapists know how to troubleshoot your sexual difficulties and form a plan to get you to a very rewarding sex life.

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Physical Pain

Physically Painful Sex

Sex shouldn’t be painful. Sure you might enjoy some playful roughness, but it shouldn’t actually hurt.

Healthy people don’t enjoy real pain, so if sex really hurts or is very uncomfortable – you’re not going to enjoy sex. So you’re not going to want to have sex with your spouse.

There’s a number of reason’s why sex might be uncomfortable or painful – we can help you troubleshoot what the issue is and give you practical solutions for fixing it.

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Lost Love

Lost Love

Lost that loving feeling? Sometimes the grind of ongoing conflict and unfulfilled needs in a relationship lead to a “falling out of love” that also means “I don’t want to have sex with you.”

Sex is something that two people madly in love with each other, all things being equal, want to share with each other. If our relationship has deteriorated to the point where we’re not even friends, being lovers is out of the question.

Sometimes the pathway to a passionate relationship starts with learning to love again.

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Sex Therapy Resources

Why Sex is So Important to Men

Why is sex so important to my husband? In 4 out of 5 marriages men have the higher sex drive and are the primary initiator of sexual experiences. If you are in one of these marriages this comes [...]

Experts in Christian Sex Therapy

Christian Sex Therapy from Licensed Professionals

MyCounselor Online offers easy access to sex therapists who love Jesus, know the Bible, and who are clinically trained. We share your values and can help you have an amazing, healthy, fun, passionate relationship.

Meeting You Where You Are

Counseling / Sex Therapy Options

Could your sexual relationship use some help? You’ve found the right place. Our Christian marriage counselors and sex therapists are ready to work with you — in-person or from any device or location.

In-Person Counseling 

For couples who live in or near Kansas City, Columbia or Springfield, Missouri, we offer in-person marriage counseling at one of our convenient, local counseling offices.

MyDevice Counseling 

Get help for your marriage no matter where you live. Through MyDevice video counseling, our clinicians are ready to connect with you on the device of your choosing.

AccessPoint Counseling 

No sex therapy, affair recovery, or sexual addiction specialists in your area? Connect with one of our specialists through video conferencing technology at a nearby counseling office.

Hear from our clients


  • The Relationship Center [MyCounselor.Online] was perfect for our marriage at a very critical time. The crisis was handled and the issues that had to be addressed were brought to the forefront. Each issue was dealt with to resolution before working on the next one. The honest approach and no-nonsense no excuses accepted approach was right on. The skill of the staff was key to our success. The skills that we were given have made our marriage better than it has ever been. Our time with TRC [MyCounselor.Online] not only saved our marriage but made it amazing.

    Tim F
  • My husband and I have been going to TRC [MyCounselor.Online] for about 6 months and have gained valuable resources and tools to help our marriage. Rachelle is a great person and very knowledgeable. I would recommend TRC [MyCounselor.Online] and Rachelle to others.

    Cassandra B.
  • Our marriage was so horrible we thought Josh Spurlock would surely give us the green light that there was no hope and encourage us to go our separate ways. At least that’s what a previous counselor in town had told me to do. Instead, Josh used biblical principles to bring hope into a very dark, bleak situation. We saw Josh on and off for approximately three years. It took a lot of work to have the marriage we do today, but it was worth every penny and every session we attended with Josh. Josh is a phenomenal counselor. It was easy to even talk about those embarrassing, tough topics with him. God really used The Relationship Center[MyCounselor.Online] to restore our marriage. Anything is possible when you’re willing to get help, implement what you’re being taught, and add Christ as the third party in your relationship. Instead of being a single Mom to three kids, I now have the marriage I only thought existed if I was with someone else. It really is unbelievable.

    Jackie W
  • I would like to thank Josh for his help in building a strong biblical foundation in our marriage. It is normal to experience situations that cause difficulties in your marriage, but having the courage to step out and ask for help from a faith centered therapist such as Josh can help ensure that God’s plan for your marriage is revealed. Josh Spurlock is a true man of faith that honestly cares about your marriage and is committed to taking a biblical approach to therapy in an effort to equip you with the tools that are essential for continued success and years of mutual understanding and happiness.

    Kirk P
  • Investing in christian counseling made all the difference for us. We had come to a point in our marriage where we were not communicating with one another. We had kids, careers, schedules and routines, and felt we were functioning well enough. What we didn’t have was a connection to one another. We each approached situations from our own perspective never taking time to realize how that impacted the other, or how we had come to have that perspective in the first place. The counseling process allowed us to reconnect with ourselves and to one another and provided tools for us to use when we weren’t with our counselor. We consider it one of the best investments of time and finances we have ever made! We would recommend the counseling process and our counselor Rachelle Colegrove without hesitation.

    Brian & Julie U

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Our sex therapists help couples just like you overcome their problems and have an AMAZING sex life. Schedule an appointment to start your journey to the passionate intimacy you’ve always dreamed of.

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