Christian Sex Therapy

Are you too busy for sex? Who has time or energy for sex? Finding time or mental focus for romance is harder than it sounds. Quality time and sexually connection are important to the health of [...]

Why does enjoying sex matter? If you’re on the lower end of the libido spectrum, however, that answer doesn’t resonate with you. 1st God Designed You to Enjoy Sex

Does being sexy feel dirty to you? Growing up we can receive the message that sexual feelings and desire are bad. This tends to get in the way of desire for sex.

Sexual confidence/feeling sexy is an important driver for a women’s sexual desire. If you don’t feel sexy, you’re probably going to have difficulty desiring to engage sexually. This is different [...]

For many women, conflicting feelings about pregnancy get in the way of them enjoying a passionate sex life with their husbands. It’s true – abstinence from intercourse is the only 100% birth [...]

If you have had negative emotional experiences associated with sexuality, this can significantly impact your sexual desire. Examples of sexual trauma that might impact your sexual desire [...]

Really Painful Sex is NO Fun. If sex hurts, I mean really hurts not just a little rough in a playful way, you’re not ever going to desire it. Sexual pain can range from mild to excruciating; [...]

Sex is an emotional experience. If a women’s marriage doesn’t feel safe or if she doesn’t feel emotionally connected to her husband, she’s probably not going to feel a desire to be sexually [...]

An inability or difficulty achieving orgasm, that's what Anorgasmia means. The good news is, treatment for anorgasmia is extremely effective – 9/10 learn to orgasm.

It's pretty normal for a mature married woman to only experience initiating desire for sex a few days a month. So what can you do about it?